I’ve learned the hard way that the best person to give me advice about a situation that I am in is a person that is not involved in the situation.
I need someone I can speak with honestly and openly (who I don’t have to pay). Although they may know some of the people involved I need to know that they won’t judge me and will still love me after I express my true feelings.
I used to think this could be any nice person who cared about me but now I know that is not true. It’s crucial that they not be involved. I learned that involved people have their own agenda and their agenda may not be good for me at all.