For the longest time I did not understand what people meant when they talked about someone being emotionally intelligent. It was such a foreign concept to me because my emotional IQ used to be essentially non-existent.
This is by far the hardest thing for me to learn and I continue to work at it. Some days are very good and I feel good about myself but some days are deep valleys and I question whether or not I will ever fully climb out of it.
I always found it interesting that IQs are set in stone. It would seem to me an IQ could be different at different points in a person’s life.